I know exactly how you are feeling right now! I have been going through the same thing for the past 4 years!! As far as the being disconnected thing- Chad and I went threw that for a while too and we would argue so much because there wasn't really much to talk about. We switched him calling every day to every other day and we talk online...It let's me know he is safe, but gives us something to look forward to every other day or so...I know it sounds crazy, but maybe if there isnt as many phone calls there will be more to talk about!! I know what your fighting about the family thing, i'm going threw it as well...i think that you just need to stand your ground, let them know what you guys want and just let it be there. I would just let R&R come as it does...that's what we have been doing, we had so many plans but things are working so much better with him just coming home and playing it by ear. Best of luck to you lady, im here if you wanna chat!!
I know exactly how you are feeling right now! I have been going through the same thing for the past 4 years!! As far as the being disconnected thing- Chad and I went threw that for a while too and we would argue so much because there wasn't really much to talk about. We switched him calling every day to every other day and we talk online...It let's me know he is safe, but gives us something to look forward to every other day or so...I know it sounds crazy, but maybe if there isnt as many phone calls there will be more to talk about!! I know what your fighting about the family thing, i'm going threw it as well...i think that you just need to stand your ground, let them know what you guys want and just let it be there. I would just let R&R come as it does...that's what we have been doing, we had so many plans but things are working so much better with him just coming home and playing it by ear. Best of luck to you lady, im here if you wanna chat!!
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